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Live for yourself before you leave yourself ✨

"Personality begins where comparison leaves off, Be Unique. Be Memorable. Be Confident. Be Proud".~ Shannon L. Alder

What it takes to be happy?

Ever wondered?

Gratitude ❤️ and Gratitude ❤️

Every person makes his own lifestyle and is happy with it untill he sees the lifestyle of other person or he forgets what he is blessed with, 

Happens, happens with everyone! 🤷

But comparison is nothing but a recipe for misery!🥺

All it does is keeping you focused on what you don’t have, unlike others☹️

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more❣️ If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough!

It is never bad to strive for something better and better but it is not good when you work hard for that moment and dont even enjoy it🤷

It is of no use when you can't be joyful of what you achieved since you sacrificed so many things for it and gave your whole heart and energy to that work or aspiration🌸

 "Live for yourself before you leave yourself"

Whenever you find yourself looking at what other people have, remind yourself of what you’re grateful for😇. For me, that means appreciating my family, and the fact that I’m living in a home where I can bloom profusely in nurturing environment🥰So, shift focus from what you don’t have, to what you do have🦋

You will never be satisfied with rivers you have, you will always strive for oceans.🤷

Every minute spent on comparing your path to someone else’s is a minute lost on creating your own🌿

Everyday be proud of what you achieved✨

Look into the mirror 🪞


See how well you're doing in life🥰

Spend your time with your loved ones,❣️

since pennies don't stay forever 🤷

But, memories do ❤️


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