Pursuit of Happiness by Tarika Sanduja

Sometimes we care too much about what others think of us,  We reason with ourselves and always find ourself at fault. Sometimes we give a lot, and expect people to do the same to us.  There are and will be times when people will take undue advantage of us, but we'll always be there whenever they'll need us again.  But people rarely acknowledge the good that you do to them!  "Am I not good enough?"  "Why are people so harsh in their tone"  "Am I that bad?"  "Why is the world so hard on me?" All sorts of question revolve in our head! We are not alone in this thinking, everyone has the same worries and thoughts🙌 It's normal Because staying real and authentic can feel like swimming upstream especially when we are in the process of figuring out who we truly are! Sometimes, doing that we 'll lose our true self In a generation where our self worth is usually measured in terms of how many likes we receive, it's but natura

When you hand your life over on a platter to someone you end up handing over a good chunk of your self-worth to that person You don't realise that, but your worth gets defined by what they think of you! You always ponder what they might be thinking about you, how they might feel, what they would do, what they might say and all sorts of stuff.  Have you ever wondered How would your life be if you stopped allowing other people to dilute your day with their words or opinions? There'll always be someone who can't see your worth! Don't let that person be you yourself! There'll always be someone who'll belittle you, there'll always be someone who would not like you,  There'll will always be cases when you would have your best intentions at heart while the other person won't. There'll always be cases when you'll be left out in the dark despite all the good that you do, But at the same time, you gotta n pinch yourself and tell yourself

Most of the times, we all are au courant that our plate is t oo full, But we still convince ourselves that we need to finish it by ourselves We have a tendency of trying to do everything on our own Primarily, because we don’t want to bother anyone! But most often what we fail to realise is that if someone cares for us, they’re not going to let us suffer alone So, all those who are battling hard with their emotions, Before you decide anything, take some time. Take time to think what lies before you. Remember, Even the darkest days end with the sunrise. Whenever it hurts, don't just weep, rather observe. Observe who's there with you in times of sorrow Life is trying to teach you something It's all in our hands🤷 We can either kill ourselves just because we have lost what we considered to be our greatest opulence, Or fight, with our current state, our mind, with our own self just to prove that we are still the protagonist, & protagonists never lose.🙌✨

I'm an Astrophile❤️ Yes,I love #stars,I love gazing at the #sky full of stars⭐ Coincidentally, my name literally means a "starlet"✨,my parents named me Tarika for they wanted me to shine bright like a star,bring forth light in darkness & BE THE REASON someone believes in goodness of the people 🙌❤️ "Mainu nikki hundi ton hi taare change lagde si😍✨" My parents till date call me their star,the twinkle in their eyes🤩 Isn't it amazing how the little things like the night sky & stars can freely show you what truly matters in the world, what makes the world go round🙌 It's the most beautiful thing for me.Whenever I feel down,I gaze at the sky.The vastness of universe helps me keep myself in perspective🙌 Whenever I feel down I just look above the sky It energize me, making my problem so small in front of people going through worst✨ What calms me is the simplicity of the stars💯 That test I failed feels like nothing when I look at the star

We often look at the speck of sawdust in other’s eyes, don't we? But do we really pay attention to the plank in your own eye? Well, not really! Why is it that as humans we often look for flaws in others? We often make quick judgements about someone's behaviour, & It's only later we experience an internal shake when we find out the real story Well, Everyone is fighting some kind of a battle and frankly we don't even have a clue what most people we encounter on a daily basis are going through. Sometimes the inner battles people fight, they just feel lost for a while, People come with all their taunts, they judge all the while, The seconds spent on judging others could be instead spent on loving them❤️ Why is it as humans that we have filled our lives with so much ‘stuff’ to keep us busy that we don’t have time to slow down and simply ask someone if they are ok? While we all go on personal journeys,we also must recognize that everyo

Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over lives of little children✨🌼 Grandparents are a family’s greatest treasure, the founders of a loving legacy, The greatest storytellers, the keepers of traditions that linger on in cherished memory. Grandparents are the family’s strong foundation. Their very special love sets them apart. Through happiness and sorrow, through their special love and caring, grandparents keep a family close at heart.😇 Grandparents make the world a little softer, a little kinder, a little warmer.🌸 Having been unconditionally loved by my grandmother, over the years I've realised A garden of love grows in a grandmother’s heart. Even though she's no more, but as they say- Grandmothers holds little palms 🤲 for a while, but hearts forever ❤️. One of the greatest things she taught me was to never lose my innocence, be grounded and always strive for excellence in whatever I do🥰. Though have never got a chance to be loved by my Grandfather, my fathe

"How could she say that to me?" "Why did she refuse to help me?" "Why didn't she come to see me?" We all have some expectations when it comes to how we want to be treated, Isn't it? It is very natural, it's how we all are wired & when those expectations are not met, Most of us get disappointed,our expectations backfire & create a great deal of pain. Does that mean we should stop doing good to others, as we are not getting any return?  No! We don't need to lose our goodness, but definitely need to reduce our expectations from others It does hurt deep when we don't get back what we expect. But the fault lies in the problem itself The burden we expect them to carry, might not always be mutual & it does differ from their perspectives too. If you ask me, I practice empathy- I simply like to help, I do things everyday that don’t have an ROI, and that's also because it's naturally wired in me!  I would