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Your Soul will glow 🌟

We humans are wired in a manner that makes us fragile and strong at the same time. We always seek validation. We need someone to praise us, reassure us, that we are good, good enough. And it starts early. It starts with our family. Your mother tells you how beautiful you are. Your father tells you how amazing you are. And we start to bloom in that praise and support.  And that's when life hits you. A few people will ruin your whole day with a nasty remark. Their comments will move you to tears. And we carry the same teachings and mindset. When you are made to feel bad or worthless, short of something, you start doubting yourself. When you are not appreciated but rather targeted, you question yourself. Am I even good enough? Do i make a difference? And that's how we lose our self-worth. We either lose those people or we lose the bond with them. And now we are all alone in this. There is no one to hold your shoulders and tell you "Hey, you are good enough. You ar

Yes, You are Beautiful ♥️

To those who feel they are not beautiful, Let me start with the brutal truth. Looks do matter. There are millions of people who will always judge you by your appearance. So if you talk about these millions of people, then you are not beautiful, in their eyes. I won't give you this fake hope that your inner beauty will dazzle them, and they will forget about your looks. No., you will never be beautiful for them, So that's the harsh truth. I'll give you an instance from my life, The first time someone commented on me regarding my simple dressing and thick glasses was at my cousin's wedding. And I was okay with it, I thought this is just the way people behave at social events, they comment on other people's dressing, and other people's laughter, someone's face, someone's height, weight, etc. Even if it is at the expense of someone's self worth. And with time, I myself started believing that there must be something wrong with the way I conduc

To the people who don't like to 'bother' others!

To those who consider themselves as a burden, who have lost their sense of self worth and those who prefer keeping things to themselves instead of letting them out:- I know you don’t want to worry anyone with your pain and add onto theirs. I know you don’t want others to take time out of their busy lives to make a fuss and help you out. I know you don’t want to seem selfish, talking all about what you’re feeling right now. I know you are accustomed to being always there at someone's lowest point, but keep their distance when it's your turn to be in a tough situation But please believe me when I say this: you can’t keep it to yourself. It won’t just go away. It always finds a way to come back to absolutely terrify you, haunting your every thought. Because I’ve been there. It’s a constant struggle I still face today. Also, believe me when I say there’s always, always a way to battle it. Sadly, there’s no known way to have your fear, anger, sadness, confusion or anxie