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Your Soul will glow 🌟


We humans are wired in a manner that makes us fragile and strong at the same time. We always seek validation. We need someone to praise us, reassure us, that we are good, good enough. And it starts early. It starts with our family. Your mother tells you how beautiful you are. Your father tells you how amazing you are. And we start to bloom in that praise and support. 

And that's when life hits you. A few people will ruin your whole day with a nasty remark. Their comments will move you to tears. And we carry the same teachings and mindset. When you are made to feel bad or worthless, short of something, you start doubting yourself. When you are not appreciated but rather targeted, you question yourself. Am I even good enough? Do i make a difference?

And that's how we lose our self-worth. We either lose those people or we lose the bond with them. And now we are all alone in this. There is no one to hold your shoulders and tell you "Hey, you are good enough. You are amazing. There's nothing wrong in your look or the way you carry yourself. You did nothing wrong. You just give away more than a person deserves, more time, more love, more emotions, more priority, so much so that you forget that you are also a human being and deserve the same love and care as you selflessly shower on others .Stop doubting yourself. People will always make you feel incomplete, worthless, they'll comment upon you no matter how good you be to them and how much you ignore their acts. You'll end up giving them n number of chances just because you'll feel that their circumstances are such, they aren't bad at heart. Just because your conscience wouldn't allow you to hurt them in the same way, you'll end up hurting yourself instead and shrink yourself to spaces where no one can find you, until you've gained enough energy to be social again" 

And that's the most crucial point in your life. You can very easily become that self-loathing person who has no self-worth and self-respect. It's so easy for you to feel totally worthless and negative. But you can pause and look within. You can know yourself better. You can convince yourself that you have many good qualities. You have lost people. People changed. People hurt you. 

But you are still that good person who deserves all the happiness. And if you are able to see the gold in you when your life seems to be just ashes, then you will glitter more than any diamond, ever. Your soul will glow! 

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